Stanleys Funeral & Cremation

Midtown Tulsa's Premier Funeral Home, since 1909

A Meaningful Farewell—Handled With Care

When someone you love dies, you shouldn’t have to navigate dozens of difficult decisions alone. Stanley’s Funeral & Cremation Service provides the guidance, personal attention and thoughtful details you need to create a farewell that feels right for your family.

Whether you prefer a traditional funeral, a contemporary celebration of life, cremation or burial, our experienced staff will guide you through every step.

Concierge-Level Care for Your Family

At Stanley’s, concierge service means we listen carefully, anticipate your needs and make sure nothing is overlooked.

From the first call through the final gathering, you will have a professional team coordinating every detail. We make the arrangements easier so you can focus on your family and the people who have come to support you.

Our attention extends to the personal touches that make a service meaningful—from selecting flowers and displaying treasured photographs to flying an OU flag in honor of a devoted fan. If it matters to your family, it matters to us.

This commitment helped Stanley’s earn Oklahoma Magazine’s Best of the Best recognition for burial and cremation care five consecutive years, from 2018 through 2022.

Farewells Done Well Since 1909

For more than a century, Tulsa families have trusted Stanley’s to create meaningful farewells in quiet, good taste.

Today, we combine that tradition with bright, contemporary spaces and flexible service options. Every family is different, so every farewell should reflect the personality, values and story of the person being honored.

Our purpose is simple: to ensure every life lived is a life well honored.

Choose the Kind of Farewell That Fits Your Family

Contemporary Celebrations of Life

Gather in The Club Room at Stanley’s for a personalized celebration centered on memories, photographs, conversation, food and hospitality.

Our team can help you create a custom menu of food and beverages through our in-house caterer, giving family and friends a comfortable place to connect and remember.

Traditional Funeral Services

Host a traditional ceremony in our spacious, icon-free Grand Chapel. The chapel comfortably accommodates larger gatherings and may be personalized to reflect your family’s traditions and beliefs.  A reception may follow in The Club Room, allowing guests to continue sharing memories in a more relaxed setting.

Visitations and Intimate Gatherings

Our Chapel of Light offers a more intimate setting for visitations, smaller services and private family gatherings. Its beautiful stained-glass window creates a peaceful and welcoming atmosphere.

Cremation and Burial Care

Stanley’s provides complete cremation and burial arrangements, with options ranging from simple, private farewells to fully personalized ceremonies and celebrations of life.

We will clearly explain your choices, respect your wishes and help you make decisions with confidence.

Honoring Our Veterans

We specialize in funeral, cremation and burial arrangements for veterans and their families.

As an Oklahoma-licensed and authorized provider of veterans’ services, Stanley’s offers burial plans created specifically to honor those who served our country.

A Simple Plan During a Difficult Time

1. Contact Stanley’s and tell us what has happened.
2. Meet with one of our experienced professionals to discuss your family’s wishes.
3. Allow our staff to coordinate the details and create a meaningful farewell.

You do not have to have everything figured out before calling us. That is why we are here.

Plan Ahead and Give Your Family Peace of Mind

You may not need funeral arrangements today, but planning ahead allows you to document your preferences, understand the costs and protect your family from having to make every decision during an emotional time. Stanley’s can help you plan your burial or cremation, funeral or celebration of life, and other important final arrangements.

Start preplanning online today.

Nothing Important Is Left to Chance

When you choose Stanley’s, you receive more than funeral arrangements. You receive an experienced guide, attentive personal service and the confidence that every important detail will be handled. Let us help you create a farewell that is personal, tasteful and worthy of the life being honored.

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