Our Caring Staff in Tulsa, OK | Stanley's Funeral & Cremation Services

Stanleys Funeral & Cremation Service is the go-to funeral home of midtown Tulsa families, and that's because our staff provides concierge-level care.

What that means is our staff is at your beck and call—there to assist you with any and all of your burial and cremation needs with a personalized and elevated level of service.

Stanleys Funeral & Cremation Service is a member of the Tulsa Regional Chamber of Commerce and International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association.

Meet our professional staff.

Cassandra Lawrence Carter, F.D.I.C.

Managing Funeral Director | General Manager Tulsa

Cassandra Lawrence Carter is a lifelong Tulsan who began her career in funeral service in 2004. She attended Booker T. Washington High School, the University of Oklahoma and the Pittsburgh Institute of Mortuary Science.

In July 2017, she joined our team as the Managing Funeral Director of Stanleys Funeral and Cremation Service. Cassandra is a licensed Funeral Director, licensed Embalmer and a Certified Crematory Operator.

Cassandra enjoys spending time with her family and girlfriends, volunteering at her daughter's school, Amazon Prime and supporting local shops, restaurants and all things Tulsa.

David Stumpff

Funeral Director | Pre-planning Specialist | Owner

Alumni of Bartlesville High School, University of Oklahoma and Dallas Institute of Funeral Service, David began his affiliation with Stanleys early 1997. Oklahoma Funeral Director; Embalmer; Certified Crematory Operator, Cemetery Management; Oklahoma and Texas Life Insurance Agent specializing in pre-planning of cremation and burials.

Keith Stumpff

U.S. Army Veteran - Funeral Director Emeritus

Keith is a veteran of the US Army serving during the Vietnam War era as a Memorial Activities Specialist. Established the Stumpff Funeral Home Bartlesville in 1966. Keith and his wife Ruth are members of the Asbury United Methodist Church of Tulsa and the Woodland Church of Christ, Bartlesville. Additional memberships include: Masonic Lodge, Akdar Shrine and the Oklahoma and National Funeral Directors Association.