Cremation

Dignified Cremation, Chapel Funeral Service and a Catered Event in The Club Room at Stanleys

From the moment we take your loved one into our care, our professional team will arrange and facilitate a respectfully tasteful, dignified ceremony in one of our chapels.

Choose between our icon-free Grand Chapel or the smaller, more intimate Chapel of Light ceremonial venue. Feel free to select your own officiant or let us arrange one for you.

Host your family and friends for an optional funeral service in the chapel of your choice, then effortlessly proceed into your custom catered event in The Club Room at Stanleys.

An alternative to a traditional funeral service is a personalized Celebration of Life in The Club Room at Stanleys. Rather than a ceremony, view photos of your loved one, share memories with family and friends and enjoy a catered meal at our midtown Tulsa funeral home.

All events in The Club Room at Stanleys include:

• Dignified Cremation Performed Only by a Certified Crematory Operator
• Visitation and Viewing Facilities Upon Request
• An Optional Ceremonial Event in One of Our Icon-Free Chapels
• Live Video-Streaming Services
• A Custom Reception in The Club Room at Stanleys
• Custom Floral and Linen Choices
• Hand-Selected Catering Menu
• Online Obituary and Guest Books



The Club Room at Stanleys is designed for personalized meet-and-greets, catered events and everything in between. Conveniently connected to both of our icon-free memorial chapels, the large gathering space allows for a climate-controlled, seamless transition from the ceremony to the reception.

Beautifully appointed with comfortable furnishings and a soothing artwork collection, The Club Room at Stanleys works for both intimate and large gatherings. Ample parking is available.

Schedule a viewing or visitation

For those in need of a time to say goodbye, a viewing or visitation is available upon request. Schedule a viewing or visitation the day before or the same day as the ceremony.



A quiet, private setting is available for you and others to sit and reflect on the life once lived. This choice of service offers great comfort to those wanting a final goodbye to a friend or loved one.

Care For a Drink?

In need of a moment of privacy or maybe even a cocktail (or two) with just a few guests? Let us escort you to what we refer to as our "speakeasy," aka the Records and Archives room.



Behind lock and key is a librarylike setting with a fireplace and bar, where you can have a drink and enjoy what could be some much-needed alone time or a moment with your inner circle only during your exclusive event in The Club Room at Stanleys.